We think our ideas are unique. Yet we are quick to characterize and label the views of others. We think our positions are well thought out and well rounded. Yet we forget to consider how much we are a product of our environment. Our experiences become such a fabric of who we are. And the story […]Read more "Put the judgement aside. We have all experienced the world in a different way."
In the face of adversity, staying positive is no small task. The default reaction is to turn cynical. To shun the new ideas. To cling to what we already know and what’s comfortable. We retreat back to where we feel safe – where the outcomes are more certain and where we don’t feel judged. Being […]Read more "Being Cynical is Easy"
Blame dictates fault and responsibility. It tells us who should be punished. It makes us feel like it’s not our fault. When something goes wrong, most people are quick to point the finger and just push all the fault onto one group or one person. Is it every really that simple? Is it always that […]Read more "The Hidden Consequence of Blame"
It’s all about the scale and the magnitude. So often on the small things, we can become overwhelmed by the fear. And the fear gets amplified. And as we try and fight it, it only pushes back harder. So stop resisting and just relent. What do I mean? Rather than focus on the feeling or […]Read more "“What’s the worst that could happen?”"